BIOGRAPHY--BEREN DEMOTIER

Beren deMotier has written for Curve, And Baby, Pride Parenting, Greenlight.com, ehow.com, and more. She lives in a cozy liberal enclave of Portland , Oregon , with her spouse of twenty years, their three children, and a Labrador the size of a small horse. When she’s not driving kids, doing laundry, playing Candyland with her preschooler or writing, she paints portraits of dogs and horses.  

Media Contact: Beren deMotier, 503-282-3483, 503-367-3159 deMotier@comcast.net.  

 

 

 

THE BRIDES OF MARCH: MEMOIR OF A SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

A Giddy Leap Through a Legal Window, Straight Onto the Barbeque Pit of Public Debate  

The Brides of March drove mini-vans, paid taxes, bought braces and joined the PTA, never expecting the phone call in March, 2004, that would send them leaping through the suddenly opened window of same-sex marriage, with their kids along for raucous ride.  

The Brides of March is a bride’s eye view of same-sex marriage at a moment’s notice, with a bevy of brides, their coterie of children, donuts, newspaper reporters, screaming protesters, mothers of the brides who never thought they’d see the day, white wedding cake, and a houseful of happy heterosexuals toasting the marriage!  

But that was only the beginning as these private declarations of love became public fodder, fueling social commentary, letters to the editor, and the fires of political debate, when all The Brides of March wanted was the opportunity to say, “I do,” in this candid, poignant and frequently funny tale of lesbian moms getting to the church on time in Multnomah County.  

The Brides of March should be on everyone’s wedding gift registry. This memoir warmly, wittily chronicles the everyday details of “same-sex marriage” for an extraordinary political time. It’s a gift.” — Kate Clinton, humorist

"DeMotier opens your eyes to the heart and soul of this generation’s civil rights battle."
— Diane M. Linn, former Multnomah County Chair

" … a beautifully-written, quirky look at the pros and cons of same-sex marriage from the inside out, smart without being preachy, funny without being bitter, emotional without being maudlin." — Anne Mini , Ph.D.

“…an absolutely hilarious and sobering memoir about lesbian motherhood, the quest for marriage, and the pitfalls of a legal system that doesn't know how to classify and acknowledge same-sex relationships. This richly woven memoir juxtaposes the author's own coming of age as a punk kid (and seemingly voracious teenage harlot) with her life now, as a wife and suburban mom with a SUV-full of precocious kids of her own. Brides is a quirky, witty, engaging, and beautifully crafted tale of a life lived. Every politician in Oregon should read it.” - Diane Anderson-Minshall , executive editor Curve magazine

Available on Amazon.com, Powells.com, Barnes&Noble.com, iUniverse.com, TwoLives.com, and wholesale through Baker & Taylor, Ingram, and iUniverse.

The Brides of March: Memoir of a Same-Sex Marriage 

Published April 19, 2007 iUniverse Inc. 

ISBN-13: 978-0595439874. 

$15.95, paperback, 164 pages.

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